How a self-taught cook from South London built the restaurant she always wanted to eat in.
Maya Okonkwo grew up shuttling between her grandmother's open-fire kitchen in Lagos and her mum's terrace house in Lewisham, watching food carry conversations through long, loud evenings. She never went to cooking school. She just kept feeding people.
After a decade cooking in other people's restaurants — Brawn, P. Franco, a stint at a wine bar in Cape Town — she started doing supper clubs out of her flat in 2016. By 2018 the queue down the street was unreasonable, so she signed the lease on an empty unit on Rye Lane and opened Ember & Rye with two members of staff and a borrowed grill.
She still cooks on the pass six nights a week.
The room is long and narrow, with a 14-foot bar running down one side and an open kitchen at the back so you can watch the fire do its work. Reclaimed oak floors, scuffed by six years of good nights. Forty-five covers inside, twenty more on the heated terrace when the weather behaves.
We light the candles at 5pm and the playlist gets louder as the night goes on. No tablecloths. No dress code. No one will ever describe the cutlery to you.
We buy from a tight network of small suppliers — Wild Country Organics for veg, Swaledale for meat, Flying Fish for the day-boat catch. The menu changes every Tuesday, sometimes mid-service when something stops being good.
The wine list is exclusively low-intervention — from growers who farm without chemicals and don't mess about in the cellar. We compost everything we can, reuse our linen, and split tips evenly across the whole team.
None of this is on a chalkboard. It's just how we want to run a restaurant.
Cooks every fire-driven plate. Most likely to be found cackling at the pass with a glass of chenin in hand.
Knows your birthday, your wine and which table you proposed at. Joined in year one and never left.
Manages the fire and the kitchen team. Spent three years cooking in San Sebastián before coming home.
Maya starts a monthly supper club out of her flat in Nunhead. Twelve seats. Cash only. Booked out in minutes.
Ember & Rye opens on Rye Lane with two staff, a borrowed grill, and a hand-painted sign. Time Out turns up in week three.
We pivot to a neighbourhood takeaway during lockdown. The jollof arancini are born and never leave the menu.
The heated terrace opens out back. Sunday roast officially becomes a thing people travel across London for.
Awarded a Bib Gourmand. Esi promoted to FOH manager. The team grows to eighteen.
Eight years in. Same fire, same room, same idea. A few new dishes every week.